Learning Japanese: Never Give Up
Tuesday, May 25th, 2010

Image Credit: Fey-Rayen (DeviantArt)
Whether you’re a beginner, advanced or somewhere in between, at some point in your Japanese studies you’ve probably “hit the wall”. I’m sure you know the feeling – you’re over it, you don’t want to see another kanji or verb conjugation as long as you live.
There are many reasons this can happen – perhaps you’re bored, too busy with school or work, sick and tired of studying or you’ve simply lost your motivation.
It happens to the best of us and it’s a common problem in any endeavour, not just learning Japanese. However, it’s the way you deal with the “wall” that will define your success or failure.
If you have read anything about successful people, a common thread is that they never give up.
It is what separates them from others who start a business and then get disillusioned when they’re not making $50,000 a week, a month after opening their restaurant and give up.
Perhaps they would have had a chance at making $50,000 a week but it would take 5 years of hard work and the determination to see it through. Either way, they’ll never know because they gave up.
The world is littered with the carcasses of great dreams that went nowhere because of a lack of staying power, focus and determination. It takes a certain person to push through the pain and keep going while others fall by the wayside.
The Tipping Point
The phrase “Tipping Point” comes from a book by Malcolm Gladwell, and basically means “the process in which, beyond a certain point, the rate at which the process proceeds increases dramatically.”
Put in the lingo of language learning it means that at a certain point everything just seems to come together.
Perhaps you’ve been studying hard for a few years and seemingly getting nowhere and suddenly there becomes a point where you just feel like it comes naturally. You’re not thinking about tenses and conjugations and how many strokes in each kanji – you’re just thinking in Japanese – it’s become part of you.
Right before this “tipping point” is where the problems lie. The years of study are taking their toll and you’re wondering if you’re ever going to be fluent. This is where many people just give up as the “wall” just seems to great to get over.
Remember The Reward
If you feel yourself losing focus or interest in your Japanese studies, it’s time to remind yourself of just how far you have come and what the rewards are for sticking with it.
Your goal may be as simple as personal improvement or as life-changing as moving to Japan to live and work. Both are valid reasons to push through any walls you hit along the way.
Value Your Progress
A great way to embolden yourself and also bring clarity and excitement back in to your daily studies is to look at how much you have achieved.
Even if it’s taken you three years to learn the basic hiragana and katakana then you’ve already accomplished what most of your friends and family will never do in their lifetime.
Just think about it – you can look at hiragana, which to others is a bunch of mindless squiggles, and make sense of it. That’s pretty impressive stuff.
It is too easy to dismiss your knowledge as “simple” but if it were that simple then everyone would know it.
Open one of your hiragana text books and show a friend or family member and I bet they won’t know what anything means and conversely I’m sure they’ll be very impressed when you can read a hiragana sentence out loud to them.
While it may seem like nothing, you’ve actually come a long way and you need to acknowledge that and use it to push yourself to the next level.
Have you ever visualised being able to read an entire Japanese newspaper or watching an entire Japanese TV show and being to able to understand everything?
Don’t think you could? Well you can – it’s just a matter of using the same skills that you used to learn hiragana and katakana – study, focus and determination.
Yes, it’s much, much harder but if 125 million Japanese can do it, so can you.
Name and Shame
If you need a kick along in the area of self-motivation then why not make your plans public? If you’re stuck on the first 100 kanji, then set yourself a goal to learn them by a certain date.
In my opinion there is no better motivation than to have your friends, workmates or classmates knowing about your goals. Post something on Facebook, Twitter, MySpace or even your own blog. Outline what you plan to achieve and make it public.
I guarantee the next time you feel like watching TV rather than learning a few kanji, you’ll think twice about the consequences ^_^
It’s All About You
In the end you still have to really want to learn Japanese – there is no getting around that and it is the most powerful motivator.
You can’t be doing it just to hook up with the hot new Japanese exchange student in your class or because your Mum and Dad want you to. You have to want it badly and you have to want it all by yourself.
So if you’ve hit the wall, please don’t stop there. It’s a very long road to proficiency but it’s also very rewarding.
Imagine being able to fluently communicate in another language? It doesn’t get much better than that in my book.
Thanks for the reminder! I have felt that wall many times. What I enjoy is watching a movie I haven't seen for a while, such as Train Man. I then realize how much more I am able to understand compared to the last time I watched! Yay!
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeThis post really helps me continue to learn Japanese. Arigato! =D
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeAwesome thx - stick with it and you'll get there in the end for sure ^_^
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeThanks for this article! Going public would also sometimes make you work harder since people would expect something from you.
"Study, focus and determination!"
WE CAN DO IT!!
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeGoing public is ideal for those of us who need a kick up the bum sometimes to get things done ^_^ Good luck reaching your goals!
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeNever Gove Up..
Never Surrender..
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeAmazing post with very helpful tips! I am glad I was able to read, thanks for posting..I don't plan to give up, although I had to take a break from my Japanese classes in March this year for lack of time, but in January 2011 I will go back.
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeThx - I hope you can get back in to it. The New Year is a good time to restart and make sure you set some realistic goals throughout the year so you have something to aim for. Small steps ^_^
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeThanks for this article! I just started learning Japanese about a month ago and I've yet to really hit a major bump. It's good to know ahead of time what I can do if I ever reach that point.
I definitely agree on "valuing the process". I get so excited on the little bits of kanji I recognize in subtitles that it really pushes me to want to learn the rest...just so I can understand the whole context of it!
Visually representing your progress can be a big motivator too! :D I'm also doing RTK like one of the other commenters and I have a kanji poster that I just color over. It's kinda fun watching it slowly fill up :D
Anyways, I wrote an essay. Thanks for the post!
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeMuch appreciated. I also came across AJATT via Tim Ferris. Both AJATT and Tim Ferris are inspirational for learning languages - really enjoy everything on the 4-hour work week blog.
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeI accidently stumbled here, and boy, it really encouraged me. I have been learning Japanese for, say, 4 years now and I feel like going nowhere. It is nice knowing that there are lots of people - you guys - also bump into the similar "walls". I'll keep learning and not giving up.
Doumo Arigatou -
=)
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeThis was just what I needed to hear, thank you for this superb motivation boost!
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeThanks you for your insight. Learning Japanese is intimidating and overwhelming... but it is also fun and gives a great feeling of accomplishment with progress. I will keep your words in mind and keep up my studies!
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeGreat to hear - hope it helps you in your studies ^_^
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeGreat post! It's true, I was in that funk for awhile, but a few months ago was able to get out of it again, after realizing how much was actually there, in my head (all the passive knowledge) and starting put it back into practice and connecting dots. Then you start to realize you know more than you thought you did... as you said. :)
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeReally, really nice post..
People lose their spirit when they're actually making the most progress, because it was so hard working your way up that you only think about the "painful" things.
They get bored or frustrated and just stop learning.
So from time to time they need a little motivation like this post to keep them going, or to get them started again.
I remember being a busybody and losing hope in learning kanji when I already reached the 1000 mark(Yay!).
But now, about 2 years later I picked it up again and it's going pretty well.
And that's all thanks to my method, I learn 5 kanji every weekday, saturday and sunday are my conjugation days and also my review days..
I'm not saying that everyone should do that, because I used to learn just 2 kanji a day when I first started.
But now I have some more time on my hands so I study more and look for awesome blogs like these!!
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeAgreed. This is generally the best advice one can get to keep going at ANYTHING, really. Although, the truth is that the path doesn't always have to be painful. Finding the most enjoyable method is the best way to learn. You rarely see any "wall" in the distance.
What I am saying is, try as many methods as you want. Do stuff that will get you wear you want. As a certain internet person has said, "don't worry about how fast you will get to be fluent, worry about how fast you will get to do stuff that will get you to be fluent and let fluency come naturally". And of course, don't give up. 諦めるんじゃないぞ!
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeA really energizing article for those who are about to hit the wall.
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeNice post. This is so true!
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeThank you for the encouragement and for providing an enjoyable source of connection to learning Japanese. By the way, my husband and I love "Nothing's Carved in Stone". Are they any others you'd recommend, especially ones that are singing in Japanese?
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeThx hope it helps with your Japanese studies.
With regards to music - I really like BRAHMAN, I have the album ETERNAL RECURRENCE.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SpEOV8YtC-8
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeThanks man! Respect
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeGood motivational post! Important because that wall is most definitely real, especially if Japanese is your first foreign language. It's the point where it finally kicks in just how massive of an undertaking language acquisition really is.
For me, what got me over the wall was momentum and lifestyle. I kept on studying even when utterly frustrated because studying had become as natural to me as eating dinner. Not to mention, I had a Japanese room-mate, was taking Japanese classes and watched lots of anime.
It's a long, hard road, but there is a light at the end of the tunnel.
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeThx Lloyd - great to hear from someone who has been through the pain and out the other side. As a translator you have gone further than most ^_^
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeThank you so much for this! I've been self-studying for 2 years now and a lot of days, I feel so frustrated because I feel that I'm not learning as well as I should. But when I read this, I felt that I really have achieved a lot even though I don't really think I have. I will continue to pursue my goals and stick with my studies! Thank you for the encouraging words and pointers!
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeThanks. This was a great post and has motivated me to study harder
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeThanks everyone - it's so great to hear the positive feedback. Best of luck going forward with your studies.
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeYeah, thanks for the post. I was always in the idea of having to be better than i needed before i admitted otherwise. but then i realized i was associating with the wrong ( so-called ) friends. I think i will try this soon. i saw someone else actually updating there status on twitter as they learned as well. once again thanks.
Arigato Gozaimasu
Mata Ne
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeThis is just what I needed. I've been studying for four years and I sometimes feel I'm regressing even. Gambarimasu, ne... Thanks for writing this motivating post.
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
Like"The Wall" my nemesis. I actually hit the wall after getting through my Remembering the Kanji book a few months ago. I kind of got lost on where to go next but I kept telling myself to at least keep up with studying the Kanji until you can find that next step. While I'm still wandering a bit I'm happy that I was able to keep going in some small way and pick myself up to continue the journey.
Great article I love the fact you make about the hiragana and katakana. Sometimes I lose sight of the fact that I actually have some knowledge under my belt.
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeThx great to hear you enjoyed the post. I was the same way with hiragana/katakana. When you start it all seems a distant dream and then when you've learnt it, it all seems so easy you forget how far you've come. Hope you stick with it. Good luck with the next RTK book.
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
LikeNice post. Going public is a very, very, good motivator. No sense studying in secret. Tell everyone you know so that they can remind you that you need to be making progress from time to time!
- spam
- offensive
- disagree
- off topic
Like